I have heard people talk about “love at first sight” I don’t know how true and applicable this is. This is not the final say about it but my own opinion towards this statement.
You might disagree with me and it is okay because we are all different and hold different view points about life. You might agree with me fully or partially and it is okay. We should be able to accommodate each other even when we disagree. Opinions are different most of the times.
As for me, love at first sight is the biggest joke of a lifetime. A very expensive lie. I do not believe in love at first sight. If they said love at first conversation or something like that, probably I would have believed it around 20%.
For me that is not love. I consider that as lust or physical attraction towards a person. “Love at first sight” is what you see. Not what you know or have experienced. You cannot see character on someone’s face, remember faces lie. So you fall in love with what you see. Her curves, smile or his well built body and so on.
I don’t know what people fall in love with, but as for me it is character. You don’t get to know that until you spend time with that person. I don’t mean a day and you conclude you know that person. I mean quality time even months. You know, a person can pretend and hide their true character but they can’t hide forever. With time their they unleash their true traits.
It is through interaction and a lot After all communication that you get to know a person. Probably you’ll find you have a lot in common and with time you fall in love. Tell me it was love at first sight and I will encourage you to continue being in love.
When you love a person because of their character, their looks aren’t a priority. It’s like the inner beauty overflows to the outside. After all, looks never build strong and lasting relationships but character does.
You know why? He thought you are beautiful and you started dating, after a while he sees another one who is more beautiful and loves her as well “at the first sight” and you are dumped. But if the foundation was character trust me that Union will last.
No wonder relationships are breaking after few months because what you saw is totally different from the real person. She/he looked beautiful/handsome but her/his habits are so rotten and you can’t stand them. Few months down the line you are like “I never thought you were like that” well, a rotten avocado might look okay until you cut it.
Anyway that is my opinion about this topic. Love at first sight does not exist, that is mere lust. Love and lust are thousands of miles apart never confuse them because you’ll get lost in between. As for me, tell me you loved me the first time you saw me and I will chase you like a dog that has eaten eggs.(on a light note though) because love at first sight for me, is extinct.